Dismantle Romance Myths Lies

In short, myth is a story or an idea of people because of their presence instead of support, or get some hope for those who believe.
There are hundreds of millions of ideas, stories, ideology, beliefs or expectations in this world, but only because he has good aesthetic value, not to say that was really able to deliver as promised. This case is of fair complexion and warm colors in the world, dark and cold, but if they are honest with themselves, what percentage of the ideas or story on a much more close to reaching their needs were?
At the time of my life a quarter century, there are so many myths about the world of love that should never be like him or at least fulfilled promises.
If school age and high school, I really believe in love at first sight. I always thought that when it happens, is when I'm busy doing something, then they are not accidentally with a woman who would become my life partner and void. The meeting, which was so wonderful it would be the power of love conquers all must have, not one iota of doubt in me that no relationship.
It was tested in a number of my experience, never was a failure in the relationship is love at first sight. But not because it is the magical power of love, but because the relationship has never been there, so nothing can be frustrated, clapping also known as I feel that I've never got on one side and the imagination.
Have you ever experienced something similar, right?
Friendships with women are always things in any environment they live in abundance. Schools, colleges, churches, and the Office is not for me, a woman talk about personal things about his life and his intimate difficult.
I have a warmer environment, interact, women like to see me, so that whole circle of friends, I have always been dominated by the remaining 70% of women and men. This is a very fertile conditions for the myth of love "grew out of" friendship, so that from such a large number of women, there are some friendships that are expected to grow by more specific, such as going to marry in order .
Unfortunately, no matter how many times I pray none of this friendship in a position to penetrate to be romantic.
The story is no stranger to your life?
Now I understand why I believe that such ideas as a myth?
Because they have little correlation and a little touch with the real world!
If you refuse and say, "But often read the experiences of people who like the books of inspiration and motivation," he said, "Sure!"
Of course you never read in books, magazines or watch the show, as the talk show. I have no intention to deny it for me is a clear demonstration of compliance with the myth of "a woman wants a man," is that it happened at the wedding of my parents!
The question is: "If the idea was possible and gave rise to hope there is?" because, of course always possible to happen this way. There are billions of people on this earth to find however, such ideas occur in the lives of some people out there. That is what we read then in books and movies in a variety of true stories of Hollywood movie theme.
The question is, "and you now? Bis, if these ideas or inspirational stories ever brought something real in your life? Is it all the time and effort you spend to believe, to satisfy the needs of you in?
If not, then you have to have the courage to accept everything you believe is nothing but a myth.
We must admit the possibility that what you think of the defense, recognize and believe in marriage, dating and love it no better than a myth.
Philosophers have specific term for these circumstances: Utopia. If you do not understand their meaning, use google to read the explanatory notes are available on the Internet. Although you know well, I encourage you to read-google read other references to a better understanding of the concept.
Things like "love at first sight", "love of friendship", "women grew up as a man" is "Women want to be understood and treated special," and so on can be a real experience in the lives of some people to be, but can also be a myth in life was the most.
What I found is the current world of romance has been tainted with dozens of mythical utopia so easy to find a partner and a relationship is very difficult to satisfy.
We are so accustomed to the air inhaled daily for the myth do not realize once more how the effect is to poison our spirit.
A simple thing is a myth that comes to close, the confidence of his friends. They have been so poisoned that read "Do not Be Shaman Curhat be aware that there was a big mistake.
Another thing is if you show interest persistent myths, the seriousness and sincerity, you will be able to melt the heart of the woman of his dreams. You will not be able to recognize it as a dangerous addictive poison, if you do not read women sucked and sand.
How about to come true with "Women want to be understood and treated in a special myth" is impossible, right?
Myth!
I think the fact that more women by a man, the quality will be carried out. You know, a white man has the qualities that he sees, what they want and how to get it. If he is able to take care of itself automatically with the care situation, as well as other partners. That is the guarantee of solidity and stability that is required for every woman.
If the focus of business a versatile man extra care to understand, will be performed by the objective of women as proof that you are with the destination they want, need something from him. There is no guarantee that after the woman gives you what you want, you understand, or are still interested in the situation and "meet" other needs.
That's why a woman does not feel understood he thinks is more than just good friends, as a man-to-win-care.
Then the women will be treated special?
Silly too, buddy.
Women, especially beautiful and interesting, was to be treated special because I got tired of a hundred men, of whom he had known for years or just met in the middle of the street can. Like the previous myth, women may feel they get special treatment, because the men did something to him. If the woman was able to understand their goals, to do something, do not expect it will.
So the key for a successful approach to action is not, treatment and special things, what you are, but on the quality of his personality that everything you do to it makes you feel special.
Therefore, after attending the workshop, a woman can take the things that sit right in general, contrary to logic, such as canceling casual, an insult to the J2, and outright for him. You can read a number of other things in my article, why women interested in The Wrong Man.
Back in the myth, you know what happens when you click on the ideas and stories of utopia, as mentioned above addict?
You become a living corpse condemned "," commit the same mistake and repeat it over and over again even though there is never any results.
They are increasingly decadent romance zombie every day because they remove toxins common sense, to dream and hope to maintain the idealistic theory, real life.
So what do you relax?
It may be a number of procedures performed to obtain the power of darkness cycle?
It is true, and you have the most important first step, my friend, who is admitting that your life is through the myths of romance captured.
This is not a shame to be recognized. The fact that little man proud to do this dare.
The next step is to force your brain to think with a healthy back and critically evaluate all ideas, or another story about the romance, which so far you trust, either by parents courses, cinema, books, friends, or your own.
Must have good analytical skills to identify who each remain in MENTALITY head.
Know why you are in an idea or a concept where you are, who has been pushing for an official confirmation or her, then analyze to believe that if something is real or just a myth of endless hope does nothing in your life.
All you hold, support, trust, durable, because there is some hope for you and never result is a myth. While there is always a likelihood of success of a moment, but is much more efficient and useful if you get rid of it now and try a new tactic.
Of the dozens of existing myths and romantic, I had enrolled Thirteen of them are more common in Indonesian society, and can be downloaded for free by completing the application of 13 men who www.hitmansystem.com frequent errors in the index pages.
You can use this list as a starting point for creating your own lists. Do not go that way is the only method, you must do this because with "Deal programs" that you have eaten in the last years of his life.
Make sure you have your own list can not be added to the material you receive will depend on Hitman system. In fact, for the love of God, with a keen and critical analysis of all teachers, and Jet Kei! Make sure that what we write is actually something productive and deliver a real transformation, as you wish.
Then remove the last step, from the circle of you have been poisoned!
If you used ngarep and women wanted to pursue and stop pretending that and after reading the article Hitman system, you will not be able to do, if you're in the midst of his friends, support to continue offering such behavior!
You will find it difficult to set aside, discard the myths that if they continue to Surround yourself with agents myth.
A wise man said, "bad association spoils good manners", so you should be able, against the operator who sees in the second step.
If books, movies, songs, and is an agent that always spray with poisonous myths, avoid. As a general rule that all consumption of romantic movies, Korean movies especially since Kei really experienced and decide for themselves the thickness of the poison spread by the media.
If your friends are men with loss, limit the time to interact with them. Find one or two new friends, partners detox healthy discussion of the romantic myth toxins.
So what if the agent that affect the majority of their own parents? You can not do much to get used, however, criticism and are not swallowed raw, what they teach. You do not have to feel guilty just because they do what they once did or taught, was not that do not respect.
Research shows that only about 8-9 times a repetition of a person to new things as a habit and pattern to make in your life. No matter the level of someone intellectuals, our brains are so easy to understand and learn something, and it was difficult to remove and be able to dispose of something that had already occurred.
Especially when they have been programmed for years in his life, as the first youth work or in school now to old age.
But if you have undertaken to begin from this moment, in shackles prevent you, the filter for every position that comes and goes in your brain to do, make sure it works well with your spirit, and not let others or the utopian myths neglected determine the success or failure, you will see the actual results gradually as you go along.
So I never thought about what I Kei or Jet as a brilliant or incredibly wonderful! Not at all.
Any person seeking an opportunity for him to stay well and healthy, we'll see the same paradigm, probably even better. What we would like to share Hitman system is not as bait, to enable the confines of the myths and eliminate, as a man born, bright.
If you always do what you've done, you'll always get what you have.
Repeat 8-9 times read the previous sentence, you can have it properly stored in your mind.
Then, standing in front of a mirror, notice the shadows that is reflected there, and says: "Live, man, it's time to do something!"
Former Zombie Lex dePraxis
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